unwelcome “friends”
I have a few gay friends, not many – but a few! And they are great, I love going out with them, shopping and lunches. They have amazing taste and although they are sometimes very superficial…the are just lovely people.
During the long weekend I had two of my friends stay with me…one I have known since I was 5 or 6 (Trackie), the other highschool (Hippy). Hippy asked if her friend could stay over..i said fine..had no issue with that.
He, Andrew, wanted to come for a gay and lesbian rave that was on Saturday night cause Sleaze Fest. He only got home about 9am on Sunday morning after going to Sleaze fest, my two other friends went out, checking out the sites, and I was sitting on my sofa bed doing my assignent, he jumps on my bed and tells me what he’s been up to…too much detail!! Half an hour later, he tells me that he is off to have random sex with someone he met online, cause apparently that’s what you’re supposed to do after this event!
He come home after a couple of hours and jumps straight into my bed – GROSS! The least he could have done was have a shower..he also gave me an indepth description of how things happen and I was disgusted! I don’t care if he is gay or not! None of my hetrosexual friends would have talked like that!! After he left, I washed all my sheets twice and put them in the dryer for ages…hoping that heat treatement would kill whatever germs were on it!! YUCK!
On top of that, on Monday he went out with his friends, which was great cause I got to spend the day with Trackie and Hippy, which is what I really wanted to do! Girl time, catching up on the last few months cause they had been o/seas (Europe)!At about 4-ish he buzzes my apartment, sticking his tounge out at the camera…I let him up…open the door and there are like 5 people outside!! And he’s like “do you mind if my friends come in” and before I can answer, they are already in!! I was fuming at this point!
And to make things worse I had my Chanel, Gucci, Bvlgari and LV jewellry/bags out, cause I was showing the girls and the boys just kept touching all the stuff. Was so pissed off, especially since I don’t even let Giraffe get his grubby hands on them!!Then one guy was sitting on the floor, and Andrew went and sat between his legs and they were fooling around! ON MY FLOOR!
At that point I was feeling uncomfortable in my own home and I rang Giraffe and was complainging to him. He told me to kick them out – but how could I do that? I didn’t want to upset Hippy (cause Andrew is her friend)!! So had to put up with it for 2 hrs!! Was so relieved when they left!!!
Never again am I letting friends of friends stay at my place! Lesson learnt!
